Expressing Happiness Isn't Show off!

Happiness should be contagious!

One of the best thing which happened to my ‘thinking mind’ was being part of a conversation took place in our college library. It wasn’t a massive discussion panel. Instead, it only had two people talking, my teacher and a friend, and obviously me who was just listening to the new things.

I remember this conversation because it set my mind on the right path, and let me got to know about one thing; Existence.

It was my friend who had the command on both of us. We listened to him as if he was our spiritual leader and we were just abiding with his words. So, we were talking about existence.  The main crust of the discussion was that existence is important, and we all thrive for it. As water is essential for our life, believing in your self-existence is important too. Everything we do is only to prove our self-existence. The real thing is that to prove our self-existence, we need someone. Even posting an update about football on your Facebook timeline is making yourself count. We need an audience who can really care and make us feel exist (although I believe self-existence can be self-made, but it’s hell). Perhaps, it requires people, and some of us are left with none. This is where the worst phase starts. If you don’t make yourself count, you are left alone in the crowd, unable to be found, and it even becomes difficult to identify yourself. So, in order to prove your self-existence, we ‘have’ to share things and make ourselves valuable.

We also talked about ‘Justifications and facing’ but our little talk was interrupted, and never continued.

In this entire blog, I stressed upon the idea of self-existence and that it is necessary to be proved. So, whenever you see someone talking about anything, you just need to know that he needs to express that, and then you have full autonomy to comment about it.

We share our happiness because we simply are happy. It gives us a chance to feel acquainted with others.

Even the people who make voices against others expressing ‘happiness’ and label that as ‘show off’, once in a while need someone who can give them a shoulder.

Sometimes, happiness is expressed to make it a source of inspiration while on other occasions, sorrow and disappointment are expressed to tell others what harm they have. Indeed, expressing happiness isn’t show off, but a celebration.

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