We often startle ourselves in pursuit of knowing a person. Most of us possess a nature of being wanted to know what others are feeling consciously. Almost everyone has a desire to interpret the thinking of mates, which actually becomes a judgment for other person and eventually results in total misunderstanding. This scenario is worst of all kind. It's tiny possible to indulge yourself in someone's different dimension of thinking, having a totally unfamiliar type of approach and most importantly, has his own outlook to view life in a way.
Instead of drowning in someone's mind, you'll end up hitting onto his unshakable cranium. The skull not only protects the human brain but also prevents it to be exposed to other. Humans' body don't allow the brainy material to diffuse out, so this means that it has been perfectly articulated, while if it gets out, a person himself is responsible to all his brainy nudity.
One should know before trying to understand someone that every person in this world feels like an odd breeze to the other individual. Making yourself an intruder in a haunting cave of an endless path is a suicide for your being.
We all have an unknown character in ourselves which makes us think, "Yes! No one understands me, no one."
It's actually true perhaps.
There are reasons why you can't be understood by someone else. You may have a short-circuit life. Self-seized into the critical problems. Maybe there's no one interested to know your being. Short of words to explain yourself. Too anxious to be open to others. Or you're damn sure that no one will understand because you also are unmindful of your existence.
We can only predict minor side of others by observing their habits and behavior. It's not a piece of cake to observe someone. Sometimes you have to pour your mind into that depicted human being to analyze. It's not easy.
We try to know others, without knowing that it's the real understanding which will help us. Sometimes we neglect ourselves, while sometimes we don't want to be understood. In short, we are 'Unknown Selves.
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