3 Things That Define You !
(1) How You Treat Other Beings :
The way you treat other humans and non-humans defines what type of character you have. If you always help others and be good to them , it shows that you have a kind and peaceful nature. You are always there to help people whenever they are in need of any assistance. You have a very decent personality if you show kindness to everyone and especially if you are kind to the other creatures. A person who appreciates others and is kind to them generally lives a very happy life with great satisfaction. Society also appreciates the people who help others whenever they are in need.
However, if you are unfriendly and rude to others, it proves that you have a very harsh personality. It shows that you don't have kind thoughts about people and that you are not an interactive person. Moreover, if you think that people always bother you by constantly disturbing you, then , according to psychology, it means that you feel unloved or unappreciated or that you are not getting the love and attention you want or deserve, and that's why you get furious after getting depressed over this thought that you start treating others the way you feel you are being treated.
In today's world, all of the problems we encounter in our communities are born as a result of our relations, interactions and reactions to other people that how we treat others. Practicing compassion towards the people around us and even creating boundaries with others can help eradicate the current social disaster spread in the world.
(2) How you handle the difficult situations in your life :
According to an american author, Virginia Satir :
“Life is not the way it’s supposed to be, it’s the way it is. The way you cope is what makes the difference.”
Life is full of ups and downs. Sometimes we win and sometimes things just don't turn out as hoped. Everyone faces difficult situations in their lives. The real test is about how you face those situations . Either with Patience or Panic. Hope or hopelessness. Positivity or negativity. All these factors define a person's will and ability to withstand harsh times. Those who remain steadfast and get through difficult times with faith, patience and unity, are the ones that have a faithful spirit and hopeful attitude and that succeed in the situations Allah Almighty puts them in to test the faith of a person. All in all, a positive mindset, a hopeful attitude and a faithful heart has the best ability to overcome odd circumstances.
(3) Your ability to make choices :
There comes a point in everyone's life where the person has to make a life-changing decision. This decision can either make life better or destroy it. Our choices are the things that define us. Making a choice is never an easy task. It takes a lot of guts to make such a decisive choice. Every chance we get is an opportunity to improve our lives. That's a choice we all have to make in some point in our life. Either we let go of that opportunity and waste a golden chance to make our lives better, or we could avail the chance and make our lives glamorous. It all depends on the choices we make. Our choices define us. Make worthwhile choices in order to shine your lives.
Composed By : Abdullah Riaz
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